hey guys, so this is something I've really been wanting to talk about since it has become a topic of discussion in both therapy and my spender's/debtor's anonymous meetings that I really wish to share with you all and my two cents since i've been part of cs communities for a long time. Also in my discussion, i will be including break downs of my thoughts and ways to help. This post is not to bash anyone but really my thoughts about this niche culture and maybe shed some light on some problems and how to help. Also a lot of what I explain below is my opinions. They are not professional nor the only right away to approach this. You don't have t